Jun 27, 2018

Find your passion? If only it were that simple




She was creative and
competent. The problem had been, as it always had been, that
once the first rush of excitement was over something else had
caught her interest.


Loving Jack


This was different.
Jackie cradled her chin in her hand. How many times had she said that before? The  photography studio, the dance classes, the potter's wheel. But this was different. She'd been fascinated by each field she'd tampered in, and in each had shown a nice ability to apply what she'd learned, but she was beginning to see, or hope, that all those experiments, all those false starts, had been leading up to this.
She had to be right about the story. This time she had to carry it through from start to finish. Nothing else she'd tried had been so important or seemed so right. It didn't matter that her family and friends saw her as eccentric and fickle. She was eccentric and fickle. But there had to be something, something strong and meaningful, in her life. 





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New study challenges the idea that your lifelong pursuit is just buried inside you somewhere — but a new mindset can help.



Sounds great, doesn't it? 
In fact, finding your passion has become a big business, with colleges, self-help books and courses, and experts lined up to help people discover their one true path. 
But for many people, that specific passion can be awfully elusive. 
That's because, contrary to how the idea is popularly understood, most people don't just magically find their passion one morning. That truth can be frustrating and discouraging. 








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But that wasn't the point, she reminded herself as she stared at the pendant. She'd lost that job and all the others, and now Margaret was giving her a chance to prove she wasn't a complete moron.
Which, Allena feared, she probably was.
"You need to find your place."
Blinking, Allena managed to tear her gaze away from the pendant and look back into the old woman's eyes. They seemed so kind and wise. "Maybe I don't have one."
"Oh, there now, each of us has one, but there are those who don't fit so easily into the world the way others see it. And us. You've only been looking in the wrong places."


Ever After