Showing posts with label Celia. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Celia. Show all posts

May 30, 2019

How Crochet and Knitting Help the Brain





With one ear cocked toward Phoebe’s room, 
Essie carefully folded the white-on-white
bedspread with its stylized pattern of lovebirds. 
The intricate stitching had kept her mind
calm, as it tended to. She often thought that
being productive-and creative with it, if she
could brag a bit-held a firm rein on her mind 
and refused to allow it to wander into those
places where panic waited. It was good work, she could think that, 
and the bride who
received it as a wedding gift would have 
something unique and special, something that
could be passed on for generations. 
She arranged the dark silver tissue. 
Even that, the
fussing with the finished product, 
the meticulous packaging of it,
 helped keep her hands
busy and her mind steady.


High Noon






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By flora - Own work, CC BY-SA 3.0, 
https://commons.wikimedia.org/w/index.php?curid=1475589




I am a nurse and lifelong knitter with a calling to bring my best self in service to others.
My background in neuro-developmental pediatrics and experience working with children and adults with brain injury, spinal cord injury, strokes, and neurological disorders, led to a fascination with neuroplasticity and the ability of the brain to “rewire” itself.


Because the practice of knitting/crochet is so helpful in dealing with anxiety, the ARC was the first organization I approached, and they, and you, were interested! I’m very excited for this opportunity to teach these skills as a tool to quiet the mind, mend the brain, and soothe the soul.







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“Who thought of bringing her mother ’s crocheting in?”
“Bo did.”
“Well, it’s excellent therapy for both of them. 
Cora’s teaching Alice to crochet, and they’re
spending time quietly that way. It’s good for both of them. 
It’s going to take time, Maureen. I wish I could tell you how much time.”


Come Sundown




Oct 30, 2017

Missing 42 Years





In her mind, Alice had stayed the pretty, wild-natured young girl who’d run off to be a movie star.
That pretty young girl, and all the stages of that girl before that day.
The little girl in frilly dresses and cowboy boots. The fretful baby she’d rocked late at night. The
defiant teenager, the child who’d crawled into bed with her seeking comfort from a bad dream.
The woman in the bed with the bruised face, the dull and graying hair, the hard lines dug in around
her mouth and eyes bore little resemblance to those precious images.
Still, Cora thought, she recognized her daughter.




Come Sundown





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Police Find Woman Missing 42 Years — But Mystery Remains


Police have "solved" a decades-old missing person case — but the woman who vanished so long ago now has dementia and can't explain her own disappearance.







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“Every once in a while something—someone—peeks out from the trauma.




Come Sundown





May 10, 2016

How a Man Treats His Mother Tells You Everything You Need to Know




Noah murmured, and earned a punch of his own.
“But you sure are pretty, Mom. Isn’t she pretty?” He grabbed her hand and kissed it.
“You think that gets around me?”
He scooped up potatoes. “Yeah.”
And that’s what did it for Val. How could she hold back against a boy who so clearly loved his mother? She lifted a basket, offered it. “Have another roll, Noah.”
“Thanks.” This time when he smiled at her, she smiled back.


River's End



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I once dated a man who screamed bloody murder at his own mother in front of me — plus my own mother. When I broke that relationship off, my mom and I whispered what we both had long known to be true: “If he treats his mom like that, how will he treat other women?”
The answer: Terribly.
So on my second date with my now-husband, I told him straight-up — half out of self-preservation, half out of fear — “I’ve always said, if you want to know if a guy is safe to date, see how he treats his mom.”
“Is that so?” Pat replied with a smile.



Nov 12, 2014

Retire! Just don't go home...



Since his father had retired from the force the year before, he’d piddled with a variety of hobbies including golf, photography, woodworking and cooking. He’d decided he hated golf after the first nine holes. He’d also decided that he had no eye for photography, no affinity for wood and no skill in the kitchen.

Six months after his retirement, Celia sat him down, told him she loved him more than she had the day they’d married. And if he didn’t find something to do and get out of her house she was going to kill him in his sleep.

The local youth center saved his life and his marriage.


River's End

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Stressed wives suffer 'retired husband syndrome'


Retirement is supposed to be a contented time when couples settle down, free at last to relax and enjoy the easy life.
But scientists have suggested that when husband and wife finally have the chance to spend quality time together, stress levels are actually sent soaring.
The report suggested that many wives begin suffering from ‘retired husband syndrome’ once their men give up their jobs.