"Oh, I had friends. Somewhere along the line I'd learned
that if you didn't try so hard, if you just
relaxed and acted naturally, that there were
a lot of people who'd like you for what you were."
Convincing Alex
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By Aman dsc - Own work, CC BY-SA 4.0,
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It takes effort, but it's not impossible.